World Wide
Corona Virus Cases:
1 ,7 1 0 ,1
4 8 and counting
Deaths:
1 0 3 ,5 0 6 and counting
Early March 2020 my kid’s exams got over, they were looking forward to rewind after a month long hard studies. They were busy making plans to
travel to their grandparents house to enjoy their summer vacation. Everything
was looking very good.
Come mid March the scourge of Corona virus started getting
closure to our city. So far the disease had not impacted our country and was primarily
localised to China and few other countries. With the spread of this disease the
government took a proactive and wise decision to lock down the country for 3
weeks.
The disease spread
like a wild fire throughout the globe, except for a few countries. It humbled
mightiest of the nations, and crushed their pride to dust. It infected rich or
poor, black or white, male or female alike. Enormity of the impact can be seen
by the figures of people infected with virus and deaths it caused.
Most of us are living in the atmosphere of fear, be it fear
of contracting disease or the fear of loosing job or loss of our business etc.
The daily wage earners are the worst hit. They are not able to go out to earn
for their families. If the disease
doesn’t get them, the starvations will. The life in isolation has also given
sharp rise to rift among the family members.
Under the given circumstances, the present is scary and the
future is hazy. People need inner strength and tranquil mind not only to face
the current challenge but also to resume a new life once the life comes back to
normal.
For this, one needs to make use of the time one has to
cultivate peace of my mind and tranquility. I am putting down a few strategies for a peaceful mind, which are tried, tested and proven:
Mindfulness
Practice mindfulness. Mindfulness means
being present in the moment. Take one day at a time, take an hour, a minute at
a time. Be aware of the task you are doing, give your undivided focus to it.
Don’t think or do anything else except the task at hand. Behave as if this is
the most important work of your life. This task can been anything; reading,
listening to music, dish washing, or any official work. Nature of work does not
matter, what matter is your undivided 200% focus on it.
Gratitude
The situation is bad but it not hopeless
or out of control. We can still find so many thing in our lives to be great
full for. Make a list of all the things which you are great full. Every morning
when you wake up or at night before you retire for the day or whenever you have
time, express your Gratitude to God for all the good things in your life. It
could be; your good health, your loved ones health, access to food, means of
livelihood etc. The attitude to gratitude will develop a feeling of positivity
in you.
Exercise
A sound mind resides in a sound body. It is
just not a cliché, it is a fact. Any type of physical exercise will not only
help one to stay fit but also is a great stress buster. Exercising regularly
will also improve your immunity.
Meditate
Meditation is the the panacea for stress
and mental turmoil. There are so many variations of meditation. One can take
out 30 min each in the morning and evening for meditation. Choose a place which
is silent and without any distraction.
You may choose to sit on ground cross legged or sit on a chair. Close
your eyes and focus your entire attention on your breath. When you inhale you
must concentrate on the opening of your nostrils and feel the sensation of air
entering in. Likewise, while exhaling concentrate on sensation of air flowing
out. Just concentrate on your incoming or outgoing breath. Once in a while you
will find yourself lost in thoughts which is normal, just bring yourself back
to focusing on your breath.
If this sound difficult, you can practice chanting mantra
during meditation. There are many online guided meditation videos available
which can be used for meditation. Irrespective of the method you use, mediate
every day.
Observe Silence
This one would be really difficult
for many of us. If you are at home, practice silence one whole day, at least
morning till evening. Don’t speak to any one, not even through mails, messages
or writing on paper. During the day you can do introspection, make plans for
the future etc. Going speechless for a day will make your mind calmer.
Accept It
Whenever an unpleasant event hits us, our
first impulse is to get into a denial mode. We are not at all ready to accept
the unfavourable circumstance and keep stressing over it for hours or days
together.
To attain peace, accept the unpleasant event, make peace
with it don’t resist. Your resistance in accepting will only increase your own stress level.
Once you are at peace with the event you can peacefully plan your next course
of action. This way you shall be responding to the situation rather reacting to
it in an emotional fit.
Think of Others
During such difficult times it is very normal to become self centred.
However the more you think about yourself only, the more fearful you become.
Think about other people known or unknown who have been adversely affected by
the ongoing difficult situation. Pick up the phone or text a friend or a
relative you have not spoken with for
long. Volunteer your services for the good of society. Help needy people with
food, medicines or money. If you are not able to do any of these pray for them
and bless them with all sincerity. The moment you loose yourself you will find
yourself.
Spread positivity, bliss, hope and humanity around you.
Remember:
Tough time don’t last but tough people do.
Hi, Please share your strategies to keep oneself Motivated and Mentally Peaceful and Strong.
ReplyDeleteMy strategies are maintain right perspective, see troubles as blessings & focuse on the worthy
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